By Sebastian Harris of The Global Seducer.
What do you have to do to make a woman happy? How do you have to behave to keep the woman of your dreams forever in your life? We all heard about the mainstream advice that says that you should always be nice, polite and that you should give her one compliment after another.
That’s all well and good, but buying her expensive gifts, telling her every day that you can’t live without her and putting her on a pedestal that’s higher than the Mount Everest won’t motivate her to stay together with you for the rest of her life.
What the mainstream media tells you about what women want and what they really want are two very different animals. What I don’t want is to repeat the same advice that you have read on countless other blogs. Instead of telling all the things that sound nice but lead to nothing, I am going to share the things with you that might not sound so nice, but that actually work.
Let’s have a look at the five things you must do to make the girl in your life happy. Some of them sound counterintuitive, others sound controversial but they have one thing in common. They are all true.
1. Don’t Make Her the Center of Your Life
The worst thing you can do for your dating life is to watch a lot of Hollywood movies that only teach you how to not make women happy. What’s the typical story of a romantic Hollywood movie? A guy falls in love with a girl and because she doesn’t reciprocate his feelings he does everything he can to make her change her mind. Eventually, after humiliating himself in every possible way, she finally falls for him.
Sorry guys, but that’s not how it works in real life. In reality women don’t want to date guys who desperately try to get their attention. The last thing your girlfriend wants is that you make her the center of your life.
By doing this you might think that you prove how romantic you are, but the truth is that you only prove how desperate you are and that you don’t have a life besides her. Women are attracted to men who have a vision in life, who live for something bigger than themselves. A man who has a fulfilled life and a vision that drives him would never put a woman in the center of his life. That’s the kind of man women want.
2. Flirt With Other Girls
I know some guys who don’t even have the courage to look at other girls, because they are afraid that their girlfriend will be angry at them. Even if a lot of guys think that this is the best way to please their girlfriend, the truth is that hiding the fact that you could talk to other women is one of the biggest mistakes you can make.
In Germany we say that it is okay to get some appetite outside of your house, as long as you eat at home. If you have never tried it you probably won’t believe me but one of the best ways to make your girlfriend want you is by flirting with other women.
Women are instinctively attracted to men who have options and who could have other women if they want. No woman is happy when she is in a relationship with a guy who shows through his behavior that he is only together with her because he can’t get anyone else.
By flirting with other girls you show her that you have options and that you choose to be together with her because you really want to and not because you see yourself forced to. That’s what makes her feel special.
3. Represent Your Own Opinion
Do you have an own opinion? Great, but why don’t you share it with your girlfriend? One very popular mistake that men make is that they believe that they have to agree on everything a woman says. In fact, this is one of the fastest ways to make her leave you.
If women want to have someone who says “yes” to everything they say, they could meet one of their best friends and not a real man who they are attracted to. A real man has his own opinion and he is not afraid to represent it. This shows confidence, strength and it leads to the necessary friction that you need to make a relationship exciting.
4. Lead Her
I believe that if a woman really wants to have a leadership position in a big corporation, she should work hard to achieve her goals. I don’t say that men are better when it comes to leading a team in a corporation, but I do say that it is your job as a man to lead in a relationship.
In case your girlfriend has a successful career in the corporate world you have to listen to me very carefully. Just because she leads a team at work, doesn’t mean that she wants to lead you at home. The fastest way to lose a woman is to be too weak and too afraid to take over the leadership.
The interaction between women and men has to be based on the active and leading masculine energy and the receptive female energy. I haven’t met one happy couple in which the woman was the leader and the man was the follower.
However, that doesn’t mean that you have to boss her around like a little dictator. Lead her with respect, empathy and in a way that is beneficial for her and she will follow you.
5. Satisfy Her
Now everybody who is under 18 has to cover their ears. Have you ever thought about making your girlfriend happy by giving her orgasms instead of flowers? A man who is a good lover and who knows how to satisfy a woman in the bedroom has the power to make every woman happy.
It is scientifically proven that an orgasm releases a lot of endorphins and can make a woman feel happier. The next time you are in a shopping center and you want to buy a box of chocolate for your girlfriend you should step out of the candy store and step in the sex shop.
What do you have to do to make a woman happy? How do you have to behave to keep the woman of your dreams forever in your life? We all heard about the mainstream advice that says that you should always be nice, polite and that you should give her one compliment after another.
That’s all well and good, but buying her expensive gifts, telling her every day that you can’t live without her and putting her on a pedestal that’s higher than the Mount Everest won’t motivate her to stay together with you for the rest of her life.
What the mainstream media tells you about what women want and what they really want are two very different animals. What I don’t want is to repeat the same advice that you have read on countless other blogs. Instead of telling all the things that sound nice but lead to nothing, I am going to share the things with you that might not sound so nice, but that actually work.
Let’s have a look at the five things you must do to make the girl in your life happy. Some of them sound counterintuitive, others sound controversial but they have one thing in common. They are all true.
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